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Improving Your Sex Life

Sex July 15th, 2009

     We know that sex life is very important for a couple.If they lost it,they may have to divorce.So how can the couples improve their sex life?There are some tips here:

     1. Reveal fantasies: Have the courage to reveal your innermost fantasies to your partner and at the same time gently prod your partner to tell you his or her fantasies.

     2. The eye connection: Try to keep the eyes open during the act. It will help you connect better emotionally, spiritually and physically with your partner.

     3. Make use of spontaneity: Try to use any other room of the house or even the backyard for that matter.

     4. Criticism has no place in the bedroom: Instead of complaining about what your partner is doing let him or her know what you would like.

     5. Schedule a time: Do whatever you like to do beforehand, go to a movie or dinner, take a walk, have a glass of wine by candlelight, whatever you like to do as a couple. But set aside that time.

     6. Do not hesitate to ask: What does your partner want from your love life? Talking openly might bring you closer to one another, and that’s likely to make sex more interesting for both of you.

     7. Pay attention to sexual problems: Ignoring it can only make matters worse. Instead address these problems head on and try to solve it as a team with your partner.

     8. Lubrication is important: Lubrication is as important for a woman as an erection for a man. It all depends on the state of arousal and take action accordingly.

     9. Make no comparisons: Stop worrying about what others are doing. You stick to what is right and agreeable to both of you.

     10. Foreplay is important: Take a hot shower or bath together. Give each other a sensuous massage. Extend the foreplay as much as you can.

     11. Try to innovate: Blindfolds can add a degree of intimacy and trust in your partner that other things cannot. Read your partner an erotic bedtime story or write a sexy letter describing everything you’d like to do to them.

     12. Make use of foods: Feed each other sensually suggestive finger foods. Of course doing this in the naked builds up to an incredible love-making experience.

     Remember these basic points and you will never again have cause to regret!