Men VS Women: Who is Smarter?

Posted by admin on June 22nd, 2009

     It seems that people have great interest in this problem.Someone says that men are more smarter that women,because we can see many men leaders and scientists.This may be true.At least,I do not see much women leaders or scientists.However,many people do not agree with it ,they think women are more smarter.They think the chances given to women are less than men,so you can not see many women leaders.In fact ,men are very rude.This is not an advantage.

     In my view,the problem is very boring.We do not have to debate who are more smarter.

     First,an IQ test.IQ tests show that the average female IQ is equal to the average male IQ. However, at the extremes of the spectrum, there is a widening gap between the sexes. In other words, there are more men who score at the top and the bottom end of the intelligence scale.

     For example, there are twice as many men with IQ scores of 125 and five times as many men with IQ scores of 155, which is associated with “genius”. Interestingly, however, evidence also shows that at the same IQ level, women are able to achieve more than men, possibly because they are able to multi-task and adapt to periods of sustained hard work. Recent studies also show that in modern society, women are rapidly overtaking men both in terms of educational attainment and occupational achievement.) Read the rest of this entry »

Happy Father`s Day

Posted by admin on June 22nd, 2009

     I am very down that I do not feel the love of my father until now.Because there are something wrong with my father`s brain,so I do not know if I should own my wish to my father.My father was very rude when I was young,he often beat my mother.I was really afraid of him.In a word,I do not have any good impression on my father.But I hope I can feel the love of father!Maybe it is only a dream……
     Q:Can you tell me the history of Father`s day?
     A:  The idea for creating a day for children to honor their fathers began in Spokane, Washington. A woman by the name of Sonora Smart Dodd thought of the idea for Father’s Day while listening to a Mother’s Day sermon in 1909.
     Having been raised by her father, William Jackson Smart, after her mother died, Sonora wanted her father to know how special he was to her. It was her father that made all the parental sacrifices and was, in the eyes of his daughter, a courageous, selfless, and loving man. Sonora’s father was born in June, so she chose to hold the first Father’s Day celebration in Spokane, Washington on the 19th of June, 1910.
     In 1926, a National Father’s Day Committee was formed in New York City. Father’s Day was recognized by a Joint Resolution of Congress in 1956. In 1972, President Richard Nixon established a permanent national observance of Father’s Day to be held on the third Sunday of June. So Father’s Day was born in memory and gratitude by a daughter who thought that her father and all good fathers should be honored with a special day just like we honor our mothers on Mother’s Day.
     The excert below is from the Silver Anniversary Book on Father’s day published in 1935. I would like to thank William Jackson Smart’s great granddaughter, Bonnie, for sharing this with me. Read the rest of this entry »

What are the men`s formal wear?

Posted by admin on June 22nd, 2009

     It seems that the men wearing women clothes are very fashion.For men however, the act of wearing women’s clothing in public is something of an act of defiance. It breaks the rules. It shocks onlookers. It draws furtive glances and giggles.

     Not all of these things are bad. Most of us grow up within this double standard never questioning it. I know I certainly didn’t until I actually met a man who wore lingerie and began to see the world through his eyes. It’s easy to judge people for not seeing the inequality, but the fact of the matter is, as humans we tend to see only those things which effect us. You could call it being self centered, but in reality it is probably more a result of the fact that there is just no real way to comprehend all of the social issues in the world at one time.We only have so much brain space, and much of that is taken up with the task of not falling over when we walk.

     So then, when we first see a man wearing women’s clothing, be it a skirt, a dress, some panties, or even just carrying a purse, our little minds are blown.

     Some people react to this change with anger and try to reject it. ‘It’s wrong’, they say, or ‘It’s gay’. (Thereby rejecting the behavior by associating it with a group which has traditionally been marginalized and stigmatized.)

     Other people are more on the fence. ‘Huh. Okay. I guess if he wants to it’s okay.’ Read the rest of this entry »

Love with sex

Posted by admin on June 22nd, 2009

     The sex is the next step of love,I think.

     1. Take your partner’s breath away.
     Do something amazingly thoughtful and out of the ordinary. These events solidify you in the person’s limbic brain.

     Taking someone’s breath away involves surprise, in a wonderful way, even if it is a small gesture of love. You can also teach your partner how you want to be surprised. If you like chocolate, tell him to hide some around the house in creative places so that you can find them throughout the day and think of him. If you like flowers, tell him or her to send them on occasion. Another wonderful little surprise is to leave notes in pockets so that he or she can find them throughout the day. Another idea is to pick up your partner from work for a surprise gourmet lunch in a beautiful park. Find out what makes your partner tick and then find a way to tie it into your little plot to bring more joy and pleasure into his or her world.

     2. Do something special on a regular basis.
     One of the best ways to make yourself unforgettable is to do things for your partner on a regular basis. Make his or her nervous system expect your call, want to hear your voice, miss your touch or the look into your eyes. Giving someone greeting cards, paper cards, or e-cards on a regular basis is a wonderful way to stay connected. Being your partner’s first call in the morning and last call at night helps to solidify you in his or her neural networks. Many greeting card companies and florists have programs to remind you on a regular basis to send something special. It is the reinforcement of thoughtfulness that makes a difference.

     3. Frequent, loving eye contact (some culture call it eye gazing) is an especially powerful connection tool for bonding.
Eye contact enhances intimacy. No eye contact decreases bonding and connectedness. New York psychologist Professor Arthur Arun has been studying the dynamics of what happens when people fall in love. He has shown that the simple act of staring into each other’s eyes has a powerful impact. He asked to strangers to reveal intimate details about their lives to each other. They did this for an hour and a half. The two strangers were then made to start into each other’s eyes without talking for four minutes. Afterward, many of his couple confessed to feeling deeply attracted to their opposite number, and two of his subjects even married later.

     4. Learn what pleases your partner sexually.
     Their pleasure should be your pleasure, if you want to make your love life unforgettable. Gain skill in the things that make him or her happy, in what turns him or her on, in what brings joy. Making this a priority will give you many, many dividends.

     5. Teach your partner what you like.
     Most people get joy by pleasing others. Be an expert communicator by sharing your wants and desires. The brain loves the sounds of excitement. Make sure when your partner is pleasing you that you let him or her know.

     6. Sexual novelty can boost lasting love. Read the rest of this entry »


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