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A Romantic Marrige

     A marrige is important to the newly married young people.You know maybe it is the only one in our life,so everyone wants to make it more creative,more romantic.I think it is not important that how the others look at your marrige,the marrige should be meaningful to you!  This is more reasonable to all of us.

    Q: Then what is the romantic style for a marrige? 

     There are many good ideas.

     A:I find that when the times are a bit tough that it is good to get away. Whether you go across town to a hotel or actually make a trip it could help. If your husband likes or even use to like romance you may want to tell him to clear his schedule for an evening and if you can reserve the hotel room and get it set up for a nice romantic evening - candles radio with your favorite CD or station some nice wine and a good meal have everything save for the candles ready before he gets there even if it needs to be set up earlier in the day. Put on his favorite outfit and come prepared with whatever it is going to take to keep his mind completely with you for the evening. If by the end of the night you just end up with good conversation in a place other than home or entangled in each others arms his mind is at least free of the daily worries and focused on you and vice versa.

     A:I think it’s a good idea to travel in different places. It’s where you can relax and have time together. Why not visit Caribbean island? It’s a good place for both of you. Sometimes you need to feel fresh air and new environment. At least you can talk about your relationship privately and cherish the moments your together.

     A:You might want to find time when you and your husband are at peace and decide that you will used the formula which is called “Thank you for sharing”. It means that when you are on the verge of having an argument you (or your husband) will say : ‘Let me share something with you”. And the only response after that is : “Thank you for sharing”. It helps to seize the argument and gives both of you to think about the situation. When the tension is gone romance will flourish.

     A:The romance of a relationship often comes from new experiences.  Trying a new activity together might be a good stress relief and an opportunity to change your normal patterns.  After being in a relationship for a while, some things become predictable. Take that element out for a moment, and see what happens.

     A:I think all the above replies are great.  I would like to add - stroke his ego.  I don’t mean go all out and worship him, but men like to be proud of who they are - especially to their wife.

A wife should be an encourager, supporter, biggest fan, best friend, etc.  When he comes home from work looking rugged and tired, tell him he looks sexy.  Compliment him on things he does and says, the way he looks or smells.  Fall in love with him all over again.  Leave him a note in his car so he can find it in the morning, with a nice red lipstick print on it.  Thank him for doing even the little things.

People, in general, get so caught up in the day-to-day routines that we get pleasantly surprised by even the littles gestures of love.  A playful kiss on the neck when you pass him by, a ruffle through his hair, an extra hug, all do great things.  Knowing that you are still wild about him and that he still “has it” can make such a big difference to him.

Good luck to you!!

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