Real Man

     Jon and Kate divorce.What is your view on it?

     I get some comments:

     1.i can’t judge both of them….we are selfish people do selfish whether we know the Consequence or not….i’m hoping that the children will grew decent adult because they are the ones will get hurt emotionally & psychologically due to the parent decision and action….

     2.I love J and K and has defended them since the tabloids took hold of their family but last night episode really agitated me. Jon is not putting his kids first, he’s putting his …u know what first..getting some attention by a 23 yr old and he’s all over it it instead of his eight kids. And kate, please don’t get me started, she has also changed and appears to be all about the show and the expensive house and such…..turn off the show, go back to real real reality…get counseling and then divorce if necessary. Only then will i believe that they have put their kids first. The fame and money has changed these people and yes…the kids suffer because of it. I can remember how happy and normal and down to earth they were when things were tough and money was tight. yet..the children were happy. so so so sad.

     3.I wish that everyone would stop bashing the show. Seriously, how many people would walk away from that security? I don’t think the show has anything to do with the divorce. Jon is obviously going through his mid-life crisis. I am sickened by his comment that he is excited about the new chapter in his life. He needed to man up and express his feelings and work on the marriage rather than choosing to have an affair. Also, get the earrings out. He is 32 and needs to grow up.

     4.Like another person commented.. J&K have completely missed the boat. What’s best for the kids isn’t putting them first… it’s putting them second. John and Kate need to put each other first. Do that and your children will not only see your example of a successful marriage but will benefit from a much more “normal” life. Getting a divorce after 7 months of “real” issues? Please! Where was the therapy? Where is their FAITH? Where was ANY effort at healing, reconciliation or restoration? I was praying (literally) that their big announcement was canceling the show so they could work on their marriage. Jon is finally getting his first taste of being a man but using that freedom to make the wrong choices. I’ll keep praying for this couple. They need it. Read the rest of this entry »

     Breast Cancer  is a very horrible desease for women.As a real man ,you should take care of your wife .We all know that one may be saved if he or she see the doctor early.

     As the enviroment changing ,the cancer is more common than before.Of course ,Breast Cancer is included.Then what should women do to prevent the Breast Cancer?There is a perfect way,but the words below may help.

     When it comes to breast cancer prevention, the risks you can’t control — such as your age and genetic makeup — may loom large. But there are some breast cancer prevention steps you can always take on your own. Although these measures provide no guarantee that you won’t develop the disease, they’ll give you a start toward breast cancer prevention.

     Limit alcohol. A link exists between alcohol consumption and breast cancer. How strong a link remains to be determined. The type of alcohol consumed — wine, beer or mixed drinks — seems to make no difference. To protect yourself from breast cancer, consider limiting alcohol to less than one drink a day or avoid alcohol completely.
     Maintain a healthy weight. There’s a clear link between obesity — weighing more than is appropriate for your age and height — and breast cancer. This is especially true if you gain the weight later in life, particularly after menopause. Experts speculate that estrogen production in fatty tissue may be the link between obesity and breast cancer risk.
     Stay physically active. Regular exercise can help you maintain a healthy weight and, as a consequence, may aid in breast cancer prevention. Aim for at least 30 minutes of exercise on most days of the week. If you haven’t been particularly active in the past, start your exercise program slowly and gradually work up to a greater intensity. Try to include weight-bearing exercises such as walking, jogging or aerobics. These have the added benefit of keeping your bones strong.
     Consider limiting fat in your diet. Results from the most definitive study of dietary fat and breast cancer risk to date suggest a slight decrease in risk of invasive breast cancer for women who eat a low-fat diet. But the effect is modest at best. However, by reducing the amount of fat in your diet, you may decrease your risk of other diseases, such as diabetes, cardiovascular disease and stroke. And a low-fat diet may protect against breast cancer in another way if it helps you maintain a healthy weight — another factor in breast cancer risk. For a protective benefit, limit fat intake to less than 35 percent of your daily calories and restrict foods high in saturated fat. Read the rest of this entry »

     We often talk about about a sexy man or woman.But it seems that we do not have the same view.The answers below are collected by me on amazon.com.I just think it very interesting,and want to share it with you!

     1.Sexy is a certain magnetism that attracts others to you. Each person defines sexy differently.

     Sexy might be the way you smile in a Mona Lisa fashion that happens to catch a glance from an unsuspecting onlooker who takes a second look and perhaps smiles back.

     Sexy is the way you feel as your sense of smell reawakens as you relish your steamy shower which you’ve lathered your body in all sorts of scented gels and soaps, slathering your essential elements as you imagine your hot lover, anticipating his eager touch when he sees you later.

     Sexy is a sly suggestion made by a handsome stranger who dares to challenge your inquisitive nature with a new idea.

     Sexy is a lusty yearning for a new experience as you explore it unfolding before you.

     Sexy is whatever turns you on, turns you about, turns your world upside down.

     2.I don’t usually think of people on TV, magazines, etc., as ’sexy’ because for me it has to be a personal relationship … exceptions to that are Leonard Cohen (knock a couple of decades off each of us and I’d crumble); aspects of Brad Whitford when he played Josh Lyman in The West Wing; and there’s a video of Carlos Kleiber conducting the Vienna Philharmonic that had me and my best friend practically diving into the television … oh boy, he could have the top off my boiled egg any time he liked. Read the rest of this entry »

     I scan the title on Amazon.

     As I am a man,I do not know the answer ,I just collect the comments of some women.I think their views may be good ideas for you!

     1.I think silky boxers are sexiest, and my wife agrees.  Here’s why…
They walk the fine line of showing enough without being too revealing.  All the um… equipment is completely covered, yet um… accessible.  “Sex” happens in bed, “sexy” is the anticipation of sex.  The sexiest clothes help us anticipate times to come.

     Sex is also multi-sensual, so catering to your partner’s favorite colors and textures help.

     Finally, to be sexy, you must feel sexy.  Find clothing that makes you feel confident..

     2.The color needs to compliment his skin tone.  I personally don’t go for the wild prints or thongs for a man, I like cotton blends and silks.  The most flattering fit (universally, in my opinon) is the boxer/brief.  As long as they’re not bunchy like diapers or droopy…this happens when you buy the wrong size.  The fit should be smooth.

     Boxers are classic as long as they fit well.  There are lots of varieties but I like silk or satin boxers. Read the rest of this entry »

     A suit is a symbol of a man.A man will be more handsome if he takes the suit.

     History:

     The suit is a traditional form of men’s formal clothes in the Western world. For some four hundred years, suits of matching coat, trousers, and waistcoat have been in and out of fashion. The modern lounge suit’s derivation is visible in the outline of the brightly-coloured, elaborately-crafted royal court dress of the 17th century (suit, wig, knee breeches), which was shed because of the French Revolution. This evolution is seen more recently in British tailoring’s use of steam and padding in moulding woolen cloth, the rise and fall in popularity of the necktie, and the gradual disuse of waistcoats and hats in the last fifty years.

     The modern lounge suit appeared in the late 19th century, but traces its origins to the simplified, sartorial standard of dress established by the British king Charles II in the 17th century. In 1666, the restored monarch, Charles II, per the example of King Louis XIV’s court at Versailles, decreed that in the English Court men would wear a long coat, a waistcoat (then called “petticoat”), a cravat (a precursor of the necktie), a wig, and knee breeches (trousers), and a hat.

     Style:

     Mens Suit Styles are not all that complicated. The main thing you really need to know is that there are four main styles. Everything else is just a hodgepodge of the 4 mixed up so you can’t tell. We have American suits,English suits, Mandarin suits, and the Italian suit. Read the rest of this entry »

     It seems that the man that smokes is very sexy and mature.Well,thanks to the advertisement and films,some women are trying smoking now.In fact I hate smoking very much.I do not think it is good when I am smoking.But I have to do that when I am in a formal situation.

     Life is very short ,so we had better to be health in order to live longer.So smoking is not a thing you deserve for it.

     Q:What are the dangers of smoking?

     A:(it is from yahoo answers)Cancer, other lung disease, cardiovascular disease. Premature aging, yellow teeth, bad breath, and paying through the nose for cigarettes. I don’t actually mind smelling a little cigarette smoke even though I am a non-smoker, but I try to keep it to a minimum.

     I think if a person wants to run a restaurant or bar and allow people to smoke there, they can do that as far as I am concerned. If the smoke is too thick, I’ll go somewhere else for food and drinks. It’s up to them to decide which customers they are more insterested in accomodating.

     But it’s not so simple for a person to just choose not to go to school or not to go to the hospital or not to ride on public transit. Therefore, I think it’s totally reasonable to legally ban smoking in these sorts of places. A non-smoker who doesn’t want to breathe smoke shouldn’t have to go significantly out of their way to avoid it.

     Q:Can we take any measure to quit smoking?

     A:It is very hard to quit if you have been smoking for a long time.But I can give you some tips here.

     1. Start with some pre-preparation by ensuring that you really do want to quit smoking and understanding why you smoke. Are these reasons powerful enough to motivate you when you are faced with those tricky situations? Write down your reasons for quitting. You may want to take a look at some of the benefits of quitting.

     2. Set yourself a date for quitting. Try and choose a date that will be stress free but when you can find plenty to do to keep yourself busy. Try and set a date within about two weeks of reading this.

     3. Ask your doctor for advice. This is especially important if you have health problems or are concerned about issues such as weight gain.

     4. Consider finding yourself a quitting partner relatives, work colleagues and friends are a good place to start. Set a date to quit together and you will be able to give each other support.

     5. Tell your family and friends about your intentions. Ask them for their support before you quit and explain that you may not be yourself while experiencing withdrawal. When you reach your quitting date rely on those that have been most encouraging for support.

     6. Think about starting an exercise program and a sensible eating plan. Again speak to your doctor or dietician. Exercise will give you more energy and help you to relax and relieve stress.

     7. You should know what triggers your desire for a cigarette, such as stress, the end of a meal, drinking in a bar, etc. Avoid these triggers while you are trying to quit or if that’s  not possible, decide how you will deal with the triggers. Read the rest of this entry »

     This is an article for baby`s mother.Well ,if the fathers want to learn more about it ,you can read it in detail.

     I only hear that one baby should be feed by breast.But now the situation is all change.Most babies suck milks,little of them feeded by their mother`s breast.

     At 8 months, you might be trying to feed your baby new foods. Here are some tips on keeping food safe and healthy:

     Do not add salt, sugar, or seasonings to your baby’s foods. Foods that taste bland to an adult are a new taste experience to an infant. Some sodium or salt is necessary for good health, but there is enough natural sodium in foods. Added salt will provide too much sodium for a small baby and can even be harmful.
     Do not feed honey to your baby during his first year. Honey may carry botulism spores that can harm him.
     Do not use leftovers to make baby foods. Leftover foods are likely to have more bacteria than freshly prepared foods. This could cause your baby to get food poisoning. Use fresh, frozen, or canned food. If you use frozen food, buy the form with the least amount of added sugar, salt, and fancy sauces, all of which are not good for your baby.
     Do not feed your baby raw eggs or raw milk. Raw milk is milk that has not been pasteurized. These raw foods may be sources of infections that can be dangerous for him. Read the rest of this entry »

     Love is a beautiful thing.Someone says that marrige is an end to love.Because you can not share the happiness after marriage .They think that the couples have to face many bad things,such as make money,buy a house or born a baby.These things have nothing to do with love,so if the couples do not come over with these things they may divoice.Love is beautiful thing only when we are young,I think this may be right.

     I collect some poems on marriage.We slowly grow up,we have to face many things that are very complicated.

     Love poems allow you to express your love in a special and unforgettable way. What a beautiful way for people to express their undying love for each other? Love poems have been around for ages. They help you express what is on your mind and in your heart.

     You will surely remember those funny little love poems we all sent to the classmate we thought we loved (we are talking puppy love here) in junior school. The most popular love poem being: Read the rest of this entry »

     I remember that I have compared the intelligence between men and women.The title of the acticle is Men VS Women: Who is Smarter?.Well this acticle will compare based on the body of men and women,such as the DNA.I agree that there should be a relation between the body and the mind.So it is reasonable that we should know more about the structure of the body of men and women.

     Q:Can you give us some examples about the differences?

     A:.Yes.In spite of being, on average, bigger and generally stronger than women, men generally don’t live as long. This is true all over the world, not just in Western countries. Some researchers theorize that this is in part due to physiological differences between men and women. It may also be related to the way men and women approach relationships. Women tend to build strong support networks that they can turn to for assistance during crises. This network may help them to live longer lives .

     In addition, according to the World Health Organization (WHO), three times as many men as women die in car accidents, and two times as many men drown. Male pedestrians are also more likely to die after being struck by cars. The WHO attributes this to men being more likely to take risks than women are.

     Q:What are the ideas of  experts?

     A:The differences between men and women go beyond what you can see. Men and women are different at the cellular level. Inside every cell of your body is DNA, which is like an instruction manual for all of your body’s structures and functions. A typical human’s DNA is contained in 23 pairs of chromosomes. The twenty-third chromosomal pair determines whether you are a male or a female. Except in the case of rare anomalies, females have two X chromosomes, and males have one X chromosome and one Y chromosome. Read the rest of this entry »

     I am really sorry to hear that Venus Williams lost in France.I am a fan of her,I thought she would be the winner of the match in France.But the result defeats my thinking,she lost.Some people says that the red earth is not the advantage of her,because it will ease the speed of the ball .We all know that the speed is an advantage of her.

     Well ,it does not mean that Venus Williams will be a loser forever.I think Wimbledon will be the lucky place for her.That us see an report.

     Venus Williams (3), United States vs. Stefanie Voegele (98), Switzerland

     The queen hasn’t lost here since the third round in 2006 when records indicate she fell to Jelena Jankovic by 6-4 in a third set. It’s clear by now that on that day they just counted up the score wrong.
     Andy Murray (3), Great Britain vs. Robert Kendrick (76), United States

Kendrick led Rafael Nadal by two sets in the second round in 2006. If Kendrick leads Murray by two sets, the spectators and the BBC might experience symptoms including shortness of breath, profuse sweating and mild nausea.

     Andy Roddick (6), United States vs. Jeremy Chardy (43), France

     It’s a bit of a media sensation here that Roddick invited a London cab driver he has known for several years to his recent Texas wedding. If you can root against him after that, then you’re just an obstinate pig, that’s all.

     Dinara Safina (1), Russia vs. Lourdes Dominguez Lino (70), Spain

     As that rare quiet No. 1 seeded player, Safina can play with no pressure because nobody expects anything after she fell to pieces in that French Open final. As a pre-Wimbledon strategy, it’s very creative.

     Taylor Dent (269), United States vs. Daniel Gimeno-Traver (100), Spain

     To reach his second Grand Slam draw of the year after missing 11 straight Slams from 2006-08, the oft-injured Newport Beach native Dent fought through the savage barrenness of qualifying by scores of 6-4, 6-7 (2), 6-4 and 7-6 (4), 6-3 and 6-3, 7-5, 6-7 (7), 6-3. To make him have to win to reach the second round after all that is clearly inhumane.

     Marat Safin (23), Russia vs. Jesse Levine (136), United States

     During Safin’s last Wimbledon, those sobbing will include young women and old reporters.

     ENGLISH BREAKFAST

     Disappointment marred the All England Club on Monday when “Carmen” was announced but “Carmen” was not sung. As the curious bunched around little Court No. 17 and brought along their ears, the supreme 109-decibel grunter Michelle Larcher De Brito failed to grunt gratingly. During her 6-2, 7-5 win over Klara Zakopalova, the 16-year-old from Portugal by way of Bollettieri Academy in Florida did not approximate her French Open simulation of a Christmas goose being strangled to death, instead releasing these little yelps resembling the bark of a chihuahua. At least two English youths who’d dropped by just for the decibels expressed letdown, and they weren’t even tabloid reporters. “Nobody can tell me to stop grunting,” Larcher De Brito said later, adding, “If they have to fine me, go ahead, ’cause I’d rather get fined than lose a match because I had to stop grunting.” It sounded like textbook grunter’s defiance. Read the rest of this entry »